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		<title>By: Jeff</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jeff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Jan 2012 23:25:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One pattern I notice here is the neighborhood, and social status play a role in posters attitudes. It seems like people in a place like Bellvue are happier than less affluent areas. This seems true regardless of the city. I always liked the musicians from Seattle (Jimi Hendrix, Jerry Cantrell, Kim Thayil, etc.). I&#039;m into jazz and trance music as well-are there any good venues for those kinds of music? Politically, i&#039;m Libertarian-you cannot legislate morality and the system has proven it can&#039;t manage it&#039;s own money. 

Personally, I look forward to visiting the area. 

I hear from other NW that Portland is better (friendlier, less metro yuppie BS-more real as opposed to superficial people in the South Nashville is that way compared to Atlanta-I can dress nice, etc. but why be an ass about it?). 
In the South, I&#039;d take Nashville, Tn over Atlanta, GA. Because, I like a town that has plenty to do (without a Nordstroms on every corner, just clean, decent, high quality without the uber ego mass consumerism tends to support), yet with a friendly vibe without all the mega ego glitter people (i.e., South Beach Miami, Orange County, etc.). Where in the NW is like that (Seattle, Portland, Vancouver, etc)?

PS: On depression have any of you tried lugol iodine? It&#039;s a good product.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One pattern I notice here is the neighborhood, and social status play a role in posters attitudes. It seems like people in a place like Bellvue are happier than less affluent areas. This seems true regardless of the city. I always liked the musicians from Seattle (Jimi Hendrix, Jerry Cantrell, Kim Thayil, etc.). I&#8217;m into jazz and trance music as well-are there any good venues for those kinds of music? Politically, i&#8217;m Libertarian-you cannot legislate morality and the system has proven it can&#8217;t manage it&#8217;s own money. </p>
<p>Personally, I look forward to visiting the area. </p>
<p>I hear from other NW that Portland is better (friendlier, less metro yuppie BS-more real as opposed to superficial people in the South Nashville is that way compared to Atlanta-I can dress nice, etc. but why be an ass about it?).<br />
In the South, I&#8217;d take Nashville, Tn over Atlanta, GA. Because, I like a town that has plenty to do (without a Nordstroms on every corner, just clean, decent, high quality without the uber ego mass consumerism tends to support), yet with a friendly vibe without all the mega ego glitter people (i.e., South Beach Miami, Orange County, etc.). Where in the NW is like that (Seattle, Portland, Vancouver, etc)?</p>
<p>PS: On depression have any of you tried lugol iodine? It&#8217;s a good product.</p>
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		<title>By: tiger</title>
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		<dc:creator>tiger</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Jan 2012 03:59:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mind, body, spirit, right?  All work together.  Each one matters and if one is out of whack, it effects all three.  Since we&#039;ve moved here we&#039;ve been adamant about keeping up with all three. IN BALANCE.  Stanley Park in Vancouver, Green Lake Park, many of the beautiful trails.  Attending on-line college, checking out the different towns like Bellevue Square for Xmas etc.  One thing that is severely missing is Christianty.  It never occured to our family how the lack of large populations of Christians so deeply effects communities.  We did a search on-line trying to find  Wednesday night services.  Very few and far between.  Then we found a site that helped explain this.  The article was about a man who planted new churches.  He pointed out that Washington has never been a Christian founded place.  Many other parts of the country were initially populated this way.  

We have come to realize just how deep our need for this (fellowship with our brothers and sisters in Jesus) is, and how much we took this for granted. There is a heavy, dark, spirit here.   If you have never considered looking to Jesus and are heavily depressed here in Washington, this may be part of the cause.  It&#039;s the most important thing I have learned since we&#039;ve been here, and that&#039;s how much I need my Saviour.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mind, body, spirit, right?  All work together.  Each one matters and if one is out of whack, it effects all three.  Since we&#8217;ve moved here we&#8217;ve been adamant about keeping up with all three. IN BALANCE.  Stanley Park in Vancouver, Green Lake Park, many of the beautiful trails.  Attending on-line college, checking out the different towns like Bellevue Square for Xmas etc.  One thing that is severely missing is Christianty.  It never occured to our family how the lack of large populations of Christians so deeply effects communities.  We did a search on-line trying to find  Wednesday night services.  Very few and far between.  Then we found a site that helped explain this.  The article was about a man who planted new churches.  He pointed out that Washington has never been a Christian founded place.  Many other parts of the country were initially populated this way.  </p>
<p>We have come to realize just how deep our need for this (fellowship with our brothers and sisters in Jesus) is, and how much we took this for granted. There is a heavy, dark, spirit here.   If you have never considered looking to Jesus and are heavily depressed here in Washington, this may be part of the cause.  It&#8217;s the most important thing I have learned since we&#8217;ve been here, and that&#8217;s how much I need my Saviour.</p>
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		<title>By: Tom Linde</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tom Linde</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Apr 2011 02:39:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Whew!  One satisfied citizen.
Thanks, Stacey.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whew!  One satisfied citizen.<br />
Thanks, Stacey.</p>
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		<title>By: Stacey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stacey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Mar 2011 01:05:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OMG you people are depressing. Your shitty attitudes and inability to make friends are the problem not Seattle. Try moving to a location with a better attitude....your depression is YOUR fault not Seattle&#039;s. American people seriously  complain far too much...like whiney bitches.

Anyway, Seattle was great lived there for 3 years but moved back to SF bay to be with my family. I am actually considering moving back up again too!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OMG you people are depressing. Your shitty attitudes and inability to make friends are the problem not Seattle. Try moving to a location with a better attitude&#8230;.your depression is YOUR fault not Seattle&#8217;s. American people seriously  complain far too much&#8230;like whiney bitches.</p>
<p>Anyway, Seattle was great lived there for 3 years but moved back to SF bay to be with my family. I am actually considering moving back up again too!</p>
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		<title>By: Tom Linde</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tom Linde</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Jan 2011 15:43:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Seattlites have no souls and will manipulate and sabotage?  Yeow!  I have no idea how a geographic location could shape the whole population in such a way.  I do know there are quite a few inhabitants with a very different, very positive experience.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Seattlites have no souls and will manipulate and sabotage?  Yeow!  I have no idea how a geographic location could shape the whole population in such a way.  I do know there are quite a few inhabitants with a very different, very positive experience.</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Jan 2011 08:20:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The summers are absolutely beautiful here in WA state. HOWEVER I can&#039;t deny that the winters here are horrible. You can try to tell someone to speak to there shrinks and get loaded on &quot;happy pills,&quot; but that can only last for so long. I have to agree with some of the comments about how the people who are from WA are extremely flat out rude. I have become friends with a handful of people, and then all of a sudden they flake out on you and you never hear from them again? WEIRD!  I had to take a step back and evaluate myself, because I thought there was something I was doing/saying to maybe offend my friends, but I can honestly say I have been so loyal and kind and all I get out of this was a big fat kick in the ass! I can not wait to move back to the east coast and surround myself with people who are in tune with reality. 

My advice.. if you have the money buy a summer cottage, and then fly the heck out of here during the winter times... ALSO don&#039;t get close to people here. They have no souls, and will try to manipulate and sabotage your life. 

Just saying.. but you are your own person... but don&#039;t say i didn&#039;t warn ya!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The summers are absolutely beautiful here in WA state. HOWEVER I can&#8217;t deny that the winters here are horrible. You can try to tell someone to speak to there shrinks and get loaded on &#8220;happy pills,&#8221; but that can only last for so long. I have to agree with some of the comments about how the people who are from WA are extremely flat out rude. I have become friends with a handful of people, and then all of a sudden they flake out on you and you never hear from them again? WEIRD!  I had to take a step back and evaluate myself, because I thought there was something I was doing/saying to maybe offend my friends, but I can honestly say I have been so loyal and kind and all I get out of this was a big fat kick in the ass! I can not wait to move back to the east coast and surround myself with people who are in tune with reality. </p>
<p>My advice.. if you have the money buy a summer cottage, and then fly the heck out of here during the winter times&#8230; ALSO don&#8217;t get close to people here. They have no souls, and will try to manipulate and sabotage your life. </p>
<p>Just saying.. but you are your own person&#8230; but don&#8217;t say i didn&#8217;t warn ya!</p>
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		<title>By: Tom Linde</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tom Linde</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Dec 2010 17:09:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Twenty six years of unhappiness, isolation and weight-gain, plus a retirement separated from children and grandchildren, all due to the characteristics of the city?  I hope your return to the South brings some happiness.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Twenty six years of unhappiness, isolation and weight-gain, plus a retirement separated from children and grandchildren, all due to the characteristics of the city?  I hope your return to the South brings some happiness.</p>
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		<title>By: Karie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Dec 2010 07:45:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve lived here since 1987 and am counting the months (24) until my husband retires from the federal government and we get out of this hell hole of a state.  I have always disliked the climate and found the people standoffish and weird.  I have gained a lot of weight and went from a happy, social person to someone I don&#039;t recognize.  Jan. 2013 is my month of freedom to move back to the South, and I will be happy to put Washington in my rear view mirror.  My kids live here, my grandkids live here, but I will NEVER EVER live here again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve lived here since 1987 and am counting the months (24) until my husband retires from the federal government and we get out of this hell hole of a state.  I have always disliked the climate and found the people standoffish and weird.  I have gained a lot of weight and went from a happy, social person to someone I don&#8217;t recognize.  Jan. 2013 is my month of freedom to move back to the South, and I will be happy to put Washington in my rear view mirror.  My kids live here, my grandkids live here, but I will NEVER EVER live here again.</p>
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		<title>By: vrd</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Sep 2010 01:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I moved to Seattle in December of 2009 from SF bay area aka Silicon Valley. A lucrative career opportunity was a prevailing reason for me to move to an area that was overcast year around. My wife could not move with me right away and I was living all by myself. Other than my new boss and an old friend from college who lives here, no one knew me.

I am originally from India, so I am used to hot weather and lots of sunshine. All my life I dreamed of living in area where it rains all the time. So living in Seattle was going to be a dream come true. So I thought until I moved here. 

I started living on the east-side (Redmond) which is probably less of a city compared to Seattle. It&#039;s very green but the trees also block sunlight. My corporate housing, even though well furnished didn&#039;t have a natural light. Same was the case with office building. On days when it didn&#039;t rain (locals fondly call them &quot;dry days&quot;), there was usually no sun either. If you look up in the sky, you can see a  gray cloud stretching as far as sight reaches. At sunset, black clouds remind you of scenes from &quot;The lord of the rings&quot; movie or a video game like &quot;Doom&quot;. And this was in June, when rest of the country was complaining of heat waves. Summer of 2010 was not much of a summer. Sun was very very mild, even on clear days. 

Even though the weather is grim, it&#039;s effect is compounded because of lack of social interactions. I started spending my time in gym and in library where I could just be around people. For me there are two levels of barriers when it comes to social interactions, one because I am new to the city and because I was not born in this country. 

Contrary to some comments found here, I think people in Seattle are more courteous and friendly compared to California. I don&#039;t know if it is superficial but in California, people are too busy and courtesy is non-existent. This place has good family atmosphere. You can see kids spending time with their parents in malls, restaurants and at the YMCA. People at my work are also nicer and laid back.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I moved to Seattle in December of 2009 from SF bay area aka Silicon Valley. A lucrative career opportunity was a prevailing reason for me to move to an area that was overcast year around. My wife could not move with me right away and I was living all by myself. Other than my new boss and an old friend from college who lives here, no one knew me.</p>
<p>I am originally from India, so I am used to hot weather and lots of sunshine. All my life I dreamed of living in area where it rains all the time. So living in Seattle was going to be a dream come true. So I thought until I moved here. </p>
<p>I started living on the east-side (Redmond) which is probably less of a city compared to Seattle. It&#8217;s very green but the trees also block sunlight. My corporate housing, even though well furnished didn&#8217;t have a natural light. Same was the case with office building. On days when it didn&#8217;t rain (locals fondly call them &#8220;dry days&#8221;), there was usually no sun either. If you look up in the sky, you can see a  gray cloud stretching as far as sight reaches. At sunset, black clouds remind you of scenes from &#8220;The lord of the rings&#8221; movie or a video game like &#8220;Doom&#8221;. And this was in June, when rest of the country was complaining of heat waves. Summer of 2010 was not much of a summer. Sun was very very mild, even on clear days. </p>
<p>Even though the weather is grim, it&#8217;s effect is compounded because of lack of social interactions. I started spending my time in gym and in library where I could just be around people. For me there are two levels of barriers when it comes to social interactions, one because I am new to the city and because I was not born in this country. </p>
<p>Contrary to some comments found here, I think people in Seattle are more courteous and friendly compared to California. I don&#8217;t know if it is superficial but in California, people are too busy and courtesy is non-existent. This place has good family atmosphere. You can see kids spending time with their parents in malls, restaurants and at the YMCA. People at my work are also nicer and laid back.</p>
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		<title>By: r.m</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jun 2010 00:24:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve always dreamed about going to seattle....I work on it everyday, trying to get there. I&#039;ve lived in new york for most of my life and I hate it. The only positive thing here is the city. Thats it.....people are horrible here. I&#039;m hoping they will be better in Seattle....i can only hope though.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve always dreamed about going to seattle&#8230;.I work on it everyday, trying to get there. I&#8217;ve lived in new york for most of my life and I hate it. The only positive thing here is the city. Thats it&#8230;..people are horrible here. I&#8217;m hoping they will be better in Seattle&#8230;.i can only hope though.</p>
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